Tunde J.O. (she/her)
Professional Discipline: Body-Based Coach
Modalities:Big Leap Coaching, Urban Tantra, Diversity Facilitraining, Motivational Interviewing, Wheel of Consent Facilitator IT
We may be a good fit if…
You're a person navigating experiences in polyamory, kink, boundaries, consent, ability status, neurodivergence, understanding your social location and/or systems of oppression.
You're a queer person of color looking for ways to preserve your energy and avoid burnout while creating change in your spaces.
You're interested in understanding and resisting the ways in which oppression would rob you of your joy, or in deepening your understanding of how to experience peace and pleasure that doesn’t further contribute to oppressive dynamics.
I'm excited to support folks in: claiming the power that the world would deny you, or acknowledging the privilege that the world has handed to you.
Tunde offers:
Initial Session – for New Clients
90mins session
Regular Session – for Returning Clients
60min session
Meet & Greet
30min session
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Pleasure is liberating & liberation is pleasureful.
What do you need in your life to get closer? In my life, I've found that spaces that center marginalized folx tend to foster more generative/alive experiences. So I've built a life supporting other folks with marginalized identities in accessing more choice, and supporting groups in creating such spaces that move us all towards collective liberation.
I offer body-based coaching that blends somatics, play, consent, and an anti-oppressive lens, to help individuals & couples/polycules recognize their unique relationships to power and learn tools to address it. I offer training and consulting with orgs and collectives to help them recognize and remove barriers to healthier culture & projects.
Communities: 2SQTBIPOC, Polyam, Kink/BDSM, ADHD/ASD
Curious about working with me? Curiosity is the first step. Schedule a free consult, and let’s play!
I have experience working with these communities:
LGBTQIA+ / Queer / Trans people
Black, brown, Indigenous, Asian, and/or Latine people
Poor / Working class people
Victims / Survivors of relationship / sexual violence
Queer folks who are polyamorous, kinky, or otherwise exploring unconventional/expansive love.
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Gender: Queer
Sexual Orientation: Pansexual, Queer, Demisexual
Romantic Orientation: Panromantic, Queer
I do not identify as intersex
Relationship Structures: Open, Non-hierarchical Polyamory, Relationship Anarchy
Race: Black / African American, African / African Descent
Languages: English
I work and live in the St. Louis Metro Area
I have experience working/living in suburban and urban communities
I disagree with the statement “I feel stable in my current financial situation”
Location
In-person & Virtual
I’m open to doing coaching in a client's home or outside in Tower Grove Park or Lafayette Park. I consider biophilia—the human connection to the natural world—an ally in client support.
